So many books have already been written on the topic of personality development that some people may feel there is no need for more books. In reality, we need more and more books on this topic, because if every new book is able to give you even one valuable tip to improve yourself which you did not know before, the whole purpose of writing and reading the book has been served. The human race is ever evolving and will always keep evolving and with continuous evolution, new researchers come up with new ideas and theories in various spheres of life, from time to time. Though many of them don’t seem to deny theories established before their time, they add new value to the already existing theories so that we may get more benefit from those theories.
However some researchers do come up with new theories related to various spheres, from time to time and they provide us with knowledge that was earlier not available to many of us. This is due to the reason that a theory that holds good today may not hold equally good 100 years later, as with change in time and circumstance, the meaning and application of various theories may change. Hence new research, new information and new knowledge is the backbone of the process of evolution and therefore such new knowledge must keep appearing from time to time.
Personality development is a vast and complex sphere, as there is much more to it than appears on the surface and that is why many people with great talent and expertise in the field have been writing books on this topic. I have however observed that many such books offer generalized solutions for personality development and not many books offer specific or customized solutions for personality development; solutions which are different for different people and which have been specifically designed to address their specific types of problems or negative traits.
Hence I have written this book with the aim of offering different solutions for different people who may suffer from different problems, or even from the same problem due to different causes. As each individual is unique, accordingly, their problems may need different solutions. The remedies and suggestions to address various negative habits have been designed and suggested in a way that they will work specifically for the affected person instead of being a general thing which may be tried and may or may not work.
For example, even though different people may suffer from the same problem of headache, the causes may be different. One of them may have it due to high blood pressure, another one may have it due to low blood pressure, another one may have it because he did not sleep the whole night, yet another may have it because he has not eaten anything for eight or ten hours or even more, another one may have it due to a hangover from last night’s party and there are many other such reasons. In order to treat this problem of headache correctly, we must first know the exact reason for the headache and then decide an appropriate solution or medicine for the problem. A simple tablet for a headache may not work if a person suffers from high blood pressure and he will need different medicine to control his blood pressure, whereas the same medicine which lowers the blood pressure, and relieves this person from his headache, may cause severe problems for the person suffering from low blood pressure as it will further lower his blood pressure.
Hence different people need different solutions for their problems and it is only after identifying the exact cause or root cause of a problem in case of a specific person, that remedies or solutions should be prescribed. This book has been written with this same approach that different people need different solutions for their problems and hence this book will work towards giving you customized and specific solutions for your problems.
I have divided this book into two sections. The first section deals with technical aspects of all good and bad things that happen to us, how and why they happen and what is the exact mechanism behind the working of these good and bad things. It also contains more valuable information as well as more pearls of wisdom, many of which may not have been shared so far in any book related to this genre of personality development. Hence, this book is capable of filling you with more and more knowledge on the whole scheme of this universe, your role in it, how and which factors affect your success and failures, and how you can control those factors to gain from various spheres of your life.
The first section of this book at the same time is a technical section and accordingly, it may seem a little difficult to some readers, whereas many others will love and enjoy it like a blessing has been rendered to them. The readers, who find the first section difficult to understand, can directly move to the second section. It contains the juice of the first section – that is, it contains all the information and remedies you need to know to improve yourself, in very simple language.
The second section of this book deals with various types of problems that affect us, in the form of various negative habits and personality traits, all of which reduce or diminish our chances of achieving better things in our lives. These negative habits include negative attitude, lack of confidence, excessive anger, laziness, lack of courage and other such negative traits which may keep you away from the most beautiful and the most valuable of the achievements.
Each of these problems is discussed in detail. The root cause of each one of these problems is identified, ways to identify if you are suffering from this problem are mentioned, and finally, effective remedies to treat the problem are mentioned, including a variety of remedies and practices which are different for different people. By the time you finish reading this book, most of you will understand what your problems are and what exact solutions will work best for you. Hence this book empowers you to identify your problems and choose remedies for each problem on your own. This book will be a very valuable and dear friend of yours if you read it with all your attention and follow it with all your heart and effort.
With these words, I will now take you to the book and hope that most of you make the best use of this book and benefit from it.
Lord Shiva Bless You